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#vivaciousstorytime: I spent 5 years of my life in a toxic, draining, verbally a…

#vivaciousstorytime: I spent 5 years of my life in a toxic, draining, verbally abusive, unhealthy relationship. Weight loss gave me the strength to walk away and put myself first for once. For the first time in a long time I knew I deserved better and I finally felt like I could get better. Although we are no longer romantically involved I left the door open for a platonic relationship. Big mistake!! Maybe a part of me thought he would treat me better because I looked better?! Absolutely not. Now he says he thinks I looked cuter when I was bigger (he used the before picture to compare). If he thinks I would regain 130 lbs to look cuter…he’s as stupid as he looks!
The moral of the story is people will find any way to tear you down when they see you’re actually loving yourself. Don’t let them. It’s ok to completely remove toxicity from your life. I was always so nice when I was bigger, the pushover for guys, girls, managers, parents, siblings, everyone!! Until I realized my worth. The moment that happened my circle got smaller and smaller! And I’m ok with that!! I need genuine people around me not people that constantly try to dim my light! #tbt #facetofacefriday #bigfacts #vivaciousfacts #bpvsg #atlantavsg #atlvsg #vsg #verticalsleeve #vsgjourney #verticalsleevegastrectomy #weightlosstransformation #wlsinspiration #wlslife #vsgcommunity #vsgjourney #losingfat #losingweightjourney #wlssupport #wlslife #bariatricsurgery #vsginstacrew #vsgsupport #vsgcommunity #wls #vsgbeforeandafter #weightlossjourney #weightloss #fuckfat #losinginches

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